I grew up believing that William James Young Sr was my father. She kept me because I was a girl and because she wasn’t entirely sure who my father was. My two older brothers grew up with our biological father while I grew up with my mom and step-dad. The person who raped me when I was 9 years old was my older brother. About the family member who raped her when she was 9 Image Source
I have wondered all of my life if he killed himself because of what he did to me.Ģ. Shortly after my uncle sexually abused me, he killed himself. About the uncle who sexually harassed her She edited her answer and wrote down replies for each one of them.ġ. This heart-wrenching reply of hers went viral on Quora and thousands of people asked several questions to know how she overcame all the difficulties she faced. All of my hopes and dreams were stolen from me. I live off of SSD and receive less than $12,000 a year to survive. I also suffer from chronic PTSD, major depressive disorder, and anxiety. I have Enthesopathy, Fibromyalgia, and polyarthritis, just to name a few. It was too damaged from all the physical abuse. Whenever I did make a joke he didn’t like, he would beat me for it. He would encourage me to make fun of him in return and then laugh at my poor attempts. He would entertain guests by making fun of me. My step-dad made fun of me every day because I was a little chubby. On top of it my mom would tell me that she didn’t want me, that if she could do things over she wouldn’t have had me. I’ve been hit with a croquet mallet and beaten with a whiffle bat until it was broken in half.
I endured black eyes, bloody noses, fat and bloody lips, a broken finger, welt marks and bruises all over my body. I got hit even if I opened my mouth to speak. I got hit for making too much noise in the morning. My mom’s third and current husband, my step-dad, beat me regularly for a decade, from the time I was 5 until I was 15. My mom’s second husband would make me strip naked and lay in the center of my bed while he beat me all over my body. The chances are if you did stay at your sister’s and she was called into work, it would happen again and become a regular thing.The hardest day of my life was my entire childhood.Īt age 3, my uncle made me lick his penis “like a lollypop.”Īt age 9, I was raped by another family member.Īt 15, my mom and step-dad thought it was funny for my step-dad to touch my breasts. If you stay quiet, you have to live with it. If you come clean, she’ll either dump her husband and your relationship will never be the same, or she’ll stay and cut you out. This might be one of those times, if you can guarantee it won’t happen again. I’m not condoning what either of you did, but sometimes ignorance is bliss. What’s worrying is that you can’t stop thinking of him. I think you know in your own heart that if you have any chance of having a relationship with your sister in the future that you a) can’t revisit it b) you can’t stay the night at hers again and c) you can’t tell her what happened.
You’re also married yourself, so you’ve cheated on your own hubby as well as betrayed your sister. However, it’s just terribly sad that you’ve chosen your sister’s husband to live out this fantasy with. You might have wanted to prove that you’re still a sexual being and attractive to men.
Maybe it’s connected to going through the menopause in your 40s. I’m also 50 now and have been through the menopause, so what’s happening to me? This is weird for me as I have never been the sort of person to take matters into my own hands before or do anything impulsive. Since then nothing has been mentioned about this by either of us – it’s as if it never happened – but I can’t stop thinking about him. We had fantastic sex and never said a word to each other. He got even more excited so then I dropped my dressing gown and joined him in the bed.